First Date : Who Pays ?

Always Dutch !
Ladies if you can't pay your own bills don't come a knocking
on my door.
Who's a Gold Digger who expects the Man
to pay for most things?

" Ideally, if we're in a society that values equal treatment and opportunity for women, then it would make sense to abandon the ethics of yesteryear and forego the "men always pay" mentality.

Although, as much as we'd like to live in a perfect world, we all know that's not always the case...

Women, do you automatically expect a guy to pay and get insulted when he doesn't?
 I know I've had it go both ways... sometimes the girl insists on halfing it,
 sometimes she's butt-hurt if you don't automatically go for your wallet."
janky

"For a first date, I would rather not pay much of anything.
Either the girl and I are going dutch or doing something free.
After having a first date with a girl and having it go no where,
 I never want to spend any significant money on a women unless we are together."
Teh_Nigerian

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